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Good day to everyone, Recently, I had the opportunity to spend a few days in Nairobi, and I would want to share some information with anyone who is considering traveling to this region of the world, which is not very well-known with tourists. Due to the fact that my vacation was just seven days long, I was unable to do any sightseeing outside of the capital city. However, I would have like to do so because Kenya is an incredible place to visit.
A few observations regarding the city
Even though I was unlucky enough to get heavy rains pretty much every day, the locals told me before I came that there had been no rain for weeks. It is actually extremely contemporary and developed for an African city, and it has a beautiful climate. At night, the temperature drops quite a little; you might want to wear a jacket. The city itself has a sense of security, which is significantly higher than that of Johannesburg, for example. It offers a variety of cuisine alternatives that are satisfactory, as well as certain high-end establishments, particularly in the Westlands neighborhood. Additionally, getting around the city is quite simple and inexpensive, thanks to the availability of Uber and boda (motorbikes). There is also the option of booking a bike through Uber, which is not the safest choice but is more cost-effective and quicker. I was astounded by how quickly one could travel around the city. The traffic was not too awful for a city with a population of 5 million people. If you have ever been to towns such as Kampala or Dakar, you will understand what I mean. It may take several hours to simply leave the city. In addition, there is that expressway, which is a toll road, which allows you to skip all of the traffic while traveling from the airport to virtually any location within the city in a span of less than forty minutes. Both the Westlands and the Central Business District are of primary interest. Westlands is a posh neighborhood that is a hub for expats and is home to some of the top restaurants, nightclubs, and other establishments. When compared to other African cities, Central Business District (CBD) is significantly more local, you hardly ever see foreigners, it is crowded and not particularly safe, but it is clearly lot cleaner and better organized. In addition to the airport, there is also Nairobi National Park, which I did not visit despite the fact that it is said to be quite cool and that you can book a half-day trip for less than one hundred dollars and see a lot of animals. The Giraffe Center, on the other hand, is a place where you can feed giraffes; if my memory serves me correctly, it costs ten dollars, and it's very cool. A thirty-minute drive will get you to Nairobi.
The women
Well, let's get down to the meat of the matter. The events that I had were rather intriguing, and I am able to share my thoughts on them. To begin, I would say that Nairobi is by far the easiest place I've gone so far, if you want to get laid for free and if you want to score sevens and higher. I hope you enjoy your time there! I have traveled to all of these fundamental RVF places, including Manila, Bangkok, Jakarta, and Phuket. In addition, I have traveled to Dakar, Johannesburg, and Kampala that are located in Africa. I was pleasantly delighted to realize that the alternatives were pretty much infinite, and the attention I was getting on the streets and at nightclubs was wild. I had read several entries on this site that claimed that Kenyan women are difficult or not as easy as Ugandan women, for example. Despite the fact that there are a lot of expats in that area, you shouldn't expect to walk into a nightclub and have all of the women throwing parties for you simply because you are white. In spite of this, I have found that it is significantly superior that Manila or Bangkok.
A game played online
With Tinder Premium, I was able to get about a thousand likes in only three days, and I had pretty much an infinite number of alternatives, as you might imagine. When you acquire a thousand likes on Tinder, you will undoubtedly have some great options as well (I would estimate somewhere between 10 and 20 percent), and with a lot of them, it is quite straightforward, and you can plan a date almost immediately, such as meet them a few hours later. Tinder's quality is pretty low, just like it is everywhere else in the world. Certain individuals will humbly plead you, and if you do not respond to their messages, they will continue to bombard you with messages. Through Tinder, I was able to meet three girls, and I ended up going out with all of them! It was two of them that went directly to my room. None of them made a request for financial assistance (Uganda, for example). To avoid being taken advantage of, I initially attempted to make a video call. Yes, it is quite simple to bang two different girls every day in this location; nevertheless, after a while, it becomes monotonous, and to tell you the truth, I became exhausted pretty quickly.
Comparison with Manila
Because I was in Manila two weeks ago and utilized the same tactics (Tinder and nightlife), and because a lot of people believe Manila to be the easiest city in the world, I would want to provide my viewpoint on how these two cities compare to each other. To tell you the truth, it is not even close to being as simple as it is in Nairobi. If I banged five girls in three days in Nairobi, I would bang four girls in five days in Manila. In Manila, I received approximately 700 likes on Tinder, but in Nairobi, I received one thousand likes. Quality is far higher in Nairobi; I was able to bang several 7 and 8 while in Manila, I was only able to bang some 6.5 at best. As well as a few fives. The process of setting dates in Nairobi is a lot less complicated. There are a lot of attractive girls in Manila who will never react to you on Tinder, or they won't agree to a date that quickly, or they will be all over the place. To my knowledge, I did not encounter any flaking while in Nairobi; but, I am certain that it is possible elsewhere. I received more attention in Nairobi when I went to nightclubs, although I did receive some attention in Manila as well. Expats are in abundance in Makati, which, in my opinion, results in a great deal of competitiveness and, as a consequence, hostile attitudes.
This is in comparison to Kampala.
A comparison with Kampala is also quite fascinating because it is a neighboring nation. I was there in October for three days as well, and a lot of people report that Uganda is much simpler and more liberal in terms of getting laid than Kenya is. When I was there, I remember getting laid with four different girls, but two of them asked me for money afterward, which was a horrific experience that left me feeling disgusted. I get laid with four different girls. Also, the quality was significantly inferior. To tell you the truth, I didn't try out a lot of online dating; the only platform I used was Badoo, which isn't nearly as effective as Tinder. However, the nightlife was full with professionals; in certain locations, such as Kabalagala, it seemed like every single lady there was working. I even went to a very local place in a different neighborhood, where there were no foreigners. There, I met a girl, and she came to my room the next morning. She demanded taxi money, telling me that she needs to go to Entebbe and asking for approximately ten euros. However, when I asked her last night at the club where she is staying, she told me that she is only five minutes away. However, I just didn't want to go into any more trouble, so I handed over the money to her. However, I was left feeling really dissatisfied with the entire experience. I believe that Nairobi nightlife has a significantly larger number of regular girls than Kampala nightlife does. These girls have normal professions and will not ask you for any money from them; all they want to do is have sex with you. There are, without a doubt, professionals in both Tinder and nightclubs, but the most of them are transparent in advance, so you can just disregard them.
When it comes to nightlife, I am aware of two distinct areas: Westlands and the Central Business District. They told me that things are pretty much dead during the weekdays in Nairobi, and that there is a more mellow feeling rather than partying. I went to Nairobi on a Saturday, and I made the decision to go out only on Saturday night. While the Central Business District (CBD) is much more local, Westlands is just full of expatriates and was the only location I went to. In general, I stick to the local establishments and steer clear of the places frequented by expatriates. However, in this particular instance, I heard that the majority of locations in the central business district are lounges with tables and bottle service, which makes it very difficult to socialize. Because I am traveling alone, I made the decision to remain in Westlands. I went to two different locations.
Alchemist: It is full of expatriates (about 70 percent), it does not feel like Africa at all, and I was quite disappointed by the crowd. If you are seeking for Kenyan women, you will be disappointed, at least that was the case during my night. I ordered a beer and sat down at the bar when a Chinese girl approached me (she was barely a five) and began making sexual advances toward me. I was quite dissatisfied with the location, and I believed that the evening would be a flop. However, because she was making it abundantly apparent what she intended to do, I made the decision to give it a shot, and we agreed to leave with her car to go to my apartment. Given that it was still one in the morning, I made the decision to check on Brew Bistro, which is another well-known establishment in the area. There were perhaps thirty percent of people who were expatriates, there was some nice talent (though it wasn't particularly exceptional), I had a few locals who were interested in me, and there was a dancing floor, which made it simple to interact with other people. I noticed that one of the most attractive girls in the club, who was probably a size eight, was checking on me, and I made the decision to talk to her before I left. She was quite pleasant, and we left the club together. However, she informed me that it was too late, and that she was feeling like heading home at the moment. However, she said that we could get together the next day. In spite of the fact that the sex was quite subpar, I ended up hitting her the following day.
What is the dark side of women in Nairobi?
Up until this point, I have only discussed the positive aspects, making it sound like a paradise for poosies instead. While that is true, and I believe that it is exceedingly easy for a young white man to not only get bedded, but also score high quality, there are also a lot of negative things about my experience with Kenyan women, which also applies to African women in general, there are also a lot of negative parts about my experience with Kenyan women. In the first place, Kenya is a very impoverished nation, and the minimum wage is one hundred dollars a month. The Philippines and Thailand, for example, are both not quite as poor as this country. I believe that one of the reasons women are falling so readily for immigrants is because they are expecting for a better future. Women, in general, are quite desperate, and I believe that this is being one of the causes. I am not implying that the women I went with did not want to actually have sex with me or that they did not anticipate anything after we had sexual relations, but it is possible that some of them attempted to take advantage of the circumstance. Two of the girls, one of whom I had a date with on Tinder, and the girl who looked like a model from the club remained in contact with me. Because I am a flight attendant, I informed them that I will be returning on Saturday for a single day due to the nature of my profession. Both asked me to bring a gift from my home country, such as a perfume or chocolate from Dubai, and I agreed to meet their request. I instantly stopped messaging both of them after seeing it, as I had lost interest in them both at that moment. That being said, I get the impression that this is a problem that is not unique to Kenya; the same thing happened to the girls that I dated in South Africa and other places. Even though she had just returned from working in Saudi Arabia for two years (and earning a respectable salary, she was in possession of an iPhone 12), the Tinder date was still requesting presents. In a relationship, especially with someone you have just met, I strongly oppose the idea of being the one who provides for the other person. It is impossible for something like this to occur in Thailand or even in the Philippines. It is true that you are supposed to pay for Uber, for food, and other expenses; however, asking someone you have just met to bring you gifts is a matter of a whole different level for me and a major warning sign. The mechanics of dating are radically different from my expectations, and I didn't really have the urge to see any of these ladies again, which is something that doesn't typically happen in, for example, Southeast Asia. I felt as though it was hard to build a genuine connection with these girls.
The second significant aspect of African women is that the majority of them are terrible around the bedtime. Remember that this is based on my own personal experience, and I really want to believe that I'm just unfortunate and that this can't possibly be the case. On the other hand, everyone is talking about how black women are freaks in bed, and how once you go black, you never go back, and how they know how to move, and so on and so forth. I have had the opportunity to interact with approximately ten African women from three different nations, and my observations have shown that, on average, they are much more problematic than Latinas, Asians, or Europeans. It is possible that a significant number of them, perhaps even half of them or even more, are unable to climb on top of you and ride you. My opinion is that this is really absurd because I have never had a girl from a continent other than Africa tell me that I am not good at top or that I do not know how to ride you. On the other hand, a significant number of them in Kenya and Uganda just told me that they were either sorry or that they just did not know how to do it. Some of them were extremely reserved in bed, despite the fact that they were not shy in general. There were a few of them who were hardly moving and not making any effort from their end, despite the fact that I was making a remarkable effort to fulfill their needs. Despite the fact that one of them was from Kenya and the other was from Uganda, both of them were actually extremely good. Please remember to take this information with a grain of salt because it is based on my own personal experience. It is possible that it will be totally different for someone else, but I would want to share my opinion.
In conclusion, my time spent in Nairobi was a positive experience; I found the city and my stay there to be really enjoyable. I have the impression that it is a gorgeous location, in contrast to Kampala, which is overpowering and busy, and Johannesburg, which gives off the impression of being excessively westernized and white and somewhat uninteresting. The city of Nairobi, in my opinion, is located somewhere in the middle, in this perfect place. That is the spot to go if you want to score some hotties with the least amount of work possible because getting bedded is incredibly simple there. At the end of the day, I came to the conclusion that African ladies might not be my thing; yet, I am still thankful that I got the opportunity to visit this wild city and receive these stories.
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