I've spent years investigating this. There is a big difference between a girl permitting you to have sex with her and actively participating in the act. When a girl simply enables you to have sex with her, it's equivalent to dancing with a girl who either doesn't know how to dance or, worse, doesn't want to. I have been obsessed with this. I despise nothing more than putting in many hours of effort to get a female just to discover that she is terrible in bed. So, over the years, I've looked back at the girls who have been nice and searched for common characteristics that they all appear to have. Now, when I see these similar characteristics in a new girl, I feel delighted! I don't come across them very often, but if I did, all of this labor (gaming) would be completely worthwhile. So, what are these features I look for to tell me if a girl will be good in the sack?
1. My most energetic bangs have always come from girls who were nerdy and simply needed a guy to feed the needs she already had.
2. She enjoys being touched and responds to it. This is the most important! When I touch her in a semi-intimate manner, I hope to feel a little excitement from her. This tells me that she not only enjoys being touched, but she also doesn't mind me doing it. At some point, she should be touching me back.
3. She feels relatively confident in her body and herself. She doesn't need to be gorgeous. She may not be, but she is aware that she has a decent body, which guys find attractive. She suffers from negative self-image.
4. She is reasonably intelligent. I've never had good sex with a dumb female. Again, she does not have to be a rocket scientist, but you should be able to hold a nice discussion with her.
5. She keeps eye contact. When you give her that sexy gaze, she will not look away. I've discovered that whenever a girl is unable to look directly at me, there is an issue that will arise later.
6. She is a giver. She doesn't just stand there and let you handle everything. She also gives back. When you kiss her, she returns the kiss. I don't expect much, but 10-20% is adequate.
7. She drinks but not excessively - Girls who go out and get shit-hammered every Friday and Saturday (in addition to happy hours and pounding out a bottle of wine once or twice a week) are almost certainly carrying enough baggage for a skycab; they can be either insane in bed or almost afraid of the act. If she drinks a lot because she likes to party, I hope you enjoy a starfish with a notch count approaching triple digits (I don't). A female who drinks on occasion is not a prude; she simply enjoys having fun.
8. She is genuinely happy - A happy girl wants to enjoy every minute of her life, and getting fucked correctly and taking care of her man makes her happy (it's no surprise that happiness among Western women is at an all-time low, and their quality is deteriorating). If you've trained your eyes and ears and talked to enough women, you'll see that they can try all they want, but women can't pretend to be happy when they're unhappy.
9. Curiosity - She has interests that go beyond her field of study, her work, or the typical' mainstream' hobbies of Western women (celebrities, Apple products, celebrities, fashion, wine). She wants new experiences and someone to show them to her.
10. A spirited personality - Be careful, girls; the difference between 'spirited' and 'pushy', 'opinionated', 'arrogant' and 'grating' isn't as big as you think it is...she's got a little fight in her and has no problem holding her own and speaking her mind, but she doesn't base her identity on how many people she can, without solicitation, foist her worldview on today, and she understands that there's more to winning an argument than getting the last word in.
11. She 'feels' things very deeply - As mentioned with the gourmet comment (a legitimate point), but if she's the sort who can immerse herself in a book, music, or a play (downside: this also applies to drama), she'll definitely be a good lay.
12. As previously stated, appealing without being very attractive is good, however... - Anyone anyone dated a girl who was unattractive in high school but transformed after a year or two at university? It's fantastic to have a hot girl face and body combined with a plain feminine personality.
13. Perhaps the most important point: she must actually enjoy sex. Whether you can tell this by looking at her or she tells you (as girls in the West are known to do, which I personally could take or leave) is up to you, but it is the foundation of the problem; no woman in history has ever worked hard to improve something she didn't enjoy doing in the first place.
You generally want a girl who enjoys life and has few worries, but it's like Christmas; you never know what you're going to get until you open the package. As minimal as these needs appear to be. If I find a female that meets the most of criteria, I'd wager big money that she'll be good, and I have yet to be proven wrong!
1. My most energetic bangs have always come from girls who were nerdy and simply needed a guy to feed the needs she already had.
2. She enjoys being touched and responds to it. This is the most important! When I touch her in a semi-intimate manner, I hope to feel a little excitement from her. This tells me that she not only enjoys being touched, but she also doesn't mind me doing it. At some point, she should be touching me back.
3. She feels relatively confident in her body and herself. She doesn't need to be gorgeous. She may not be, but she is aware that she has a decent body, which guys find attractive. She suffers from negative self-image.
4. She is reasonably intelligent. I've never had good sex with a dumb female. Again, she does not have to be a rocket scientist, but you should be able to hold a nice discussion with her.
5. She keeps eye contact. When you give her that sexy gaze, she will not look away. I've discovered that whenever a girl is unable to look directly at me, there is an issue that will arise later.
6. She is a giver. She doesn't just stand there and let you handle everything. She also gives back. When you kiss her, she returns the kiss. I don't expect much, but 10-20% is adequate.
7. She drinks but not excessively - Girls who go out and get shit-hammered every Friday and Saturday (in addition to happy hours and pounding out a bottle of wine once or twice a week) are almost certainly carrying enough baggage for a skycab; they can be either insane in bed or almost afraid of the act. If she drinks a lot because she likes to party, I hope you enjoy a starfish with a notch count approaching triple digits (I don't). A female who drinks on occasion is not a prude; she simply enjoys having fun.
8. She is genuinely happy - A happy girl wants to enjoy every minute of her life, and getting fucked correctly and taking care of her man makes her happy (it's no surprise that happiness among Western women is at an all-time low, and their quality is deteriorating). If you've trained your eyes and ears and talked to enough women, you'll see that they can try all they want, but women can't pretend to be happy when they're unhappy.
9. Curiosity - She has interests that go beyond her field of study, her work, or the typical' mainstream' hobbies of Western women (celebrities, Apple products, celebrities, fashion, wine). She wants new experiences and someone to show them to her.
10. A spirited personality - Be careful, girls; the difference between 'spirited' and 'pushy', 'opinionated', 'arrogant' and 'grating' isn't as big as you think it is...she's got a little fight in her and has no problem holding her own and speaking her mind, but she doesn't base her identity on how many people she can, without solicitation, foist her worldview on today, and she understands that there's more to winning an argument than getting the last word in.
11. She 'feels' things very deeply - As mentioned with the gourmet comment (a legitimate point), but if she's the sort who can immerse herself in a book, music, or a play (downside: this also applies to drama), she'll definitely be a good lay.
12. As previously stated, appealing without being very attractive is good, however... - Anyone anyone dated a girl who was unattractive in high school but transformed after a year or two at university? It's fantastic to have a hot girl face and body combined with a plain feminine personality.
13. Perhaps the most important point: she must actually enjoy sex. Whether you can tell this by looking at her or she tells you (as girls in the West are known to do, which I personally could take or leave) is up to you, but it is the foundation of the problem; no woman in history has ever worked hard to improve something she didn't enjoy doing in the first place.
You generally want a girl who enjoys life and has few worries, but it's like Christmas; you never know what you're going to get until you open the package. As minimal as these needs appear to be. If I find a female that meets the most of criteria, I'd wager big money that she'll be good, and I have yet to be proven wrong!
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