About me: I moved to Japan in 1990 after being released from a care facility in Europe. After performing low-level IT tasks and website maintenance for some time, I began working in adult entertainment. So I know a thing or two about Japan. English teachers mainly get laid due to eager gaijin chasers coming to them to get English lessons and actively pursuing them. Foreigners tend to have no to low social status in Japan. Unless you work for a multinational chances are you'll be stuck with a mediocre salary outside of management forever + long work hours and mandatory after work drinking. It's a place where you'll be an outsider by default and most Japanese women I see in Tokyo that are together with western guys look uncomfortable due to the non stop social shaming of them. Japan is a nation with strong concepts of male duty: For one's company, one's family, for society.
Women are largely absolved from this when they marry. They just chill in cafes with the girls while trash talking their husbands who are at home 1 day a week totally exhausted from work and hope some chad picks them up. They have zero compassion for men on a much worse scale than western women. Anything that can be construed as complaining while you go through the meat grinder = you being a weak bitch.
I think Japanese people take fetishism to a whole different level simply because of the conservative socially repressed nature of their society. This means you'll get a subset of women who are really into African, white, or other men and are proactive in going out of there way to meet as many of these foreign men as possible in social venues. I notice a lot of people have said that Japanese people seem enamored of stereotypes. If a Japanese woman is into white or black men they want a man that fits into their image of what this is. In other words black men should dress like hip hop thugs and white men should look uber Nordic blond hair and blue eyes for the best results. I still think foreign guys end up dipping from the same pool though.
In Japan it's still like the old south for many non Japanese, signs that tell foreigners to stay out of businesses, etc. it's near impossible to become a citizen, you have to carry your "green card" everywhere you go and cops will hustle you constantly, it's like being jewish in nazi germany. Then of course Japanese people will ignore you and only talk to the japanese person that you are with, like you are their dog on a leash. So yeah, from pretty much everyone I have seen videos of that lives in Japan it's pretty much the same story, unless maybe you are a hot chick, then it doesn't matter where you are from, because guys have dicks and are ruled by the. ?
Women are largely absolved from this when they marry. They just chill in cafes with the girls while trash talking their husbands who are at home 1 day a week totally exhausted from work and hope some chad picks them up. They have zero compassion for men on a much worse scale than western women. Anything that can be construed as complaining while you go through the meat grinder = you being a weak bitch.
I think Japanese people take fetishism to a whole different level simply because of the conservative socially repressed nature of their society. This means you'll get a subset of women who are really into African, white, or other men and are proactive in going out of there way to meet as many of these foreign men as possible in social venues. I notice a lot of people have said that Japanese people seem enamored of stereotypes. If a Japanese woman is into white or black men they want a man that fits into their image of what this is. In other words black men should dress like hip hop thugs and white men should look uber Nordic blond hair and blue eyes for the best results. I still think foreign guys end up dipping from the same pool though.
In Japan it's still like the old south for many non Japanese, signs that tell foreigners to stay out of businesses, etc. it's near impossible to become a citizen, you have to carry your "green card" everywhere you go and cops will hustle you constantly, it's like being jewish in nazi germany. Then of course Japanese people will ignore you and only talk to the japanese person that you are with, like you are their dog on a leash. So yeah, from pretty much everyone I have seen videos of that lives in Japan it's pretty much the same story, unless maybe you are a hot chick, then it doesn't matter where you are from, because guys have dicks and are ruled by the. ?